Meet Lavon Palmer: Inspiring Alliance Hospice Volunteer

By R. Bruce Dalglish

Updated June 25, 2018

If only we could clone volunteers like Lavon Palmer, the world would be a better place. When Lavon is not busy working with her husband in their home improvement company, or spending time with her own family, Lavon spends her free time volunteering for Alliance Hospice.

Since last October, Lavon has been committed to caring for an elderly couple as if they were her own family. The wife, an Alliance Hospice patient, is terminally-ill with Alzheimer’s, and her husband is aging and has problems with his vision.

During Lavon’s visits to the couple’s home twice a week, she takes care of their needs. In addition to doing light housekeeping for the husband so that he can spend some time with his friends, Lavon tends to the wife’s physical and emotional needs.

Lavon wipes the wife’s face with a warm washcloth, and gives her manicures and pedicures. “When I come there, I open up the window and turn on country music for her and she just livens up,” recalls Lavon. “It brings me to tears every time, it’s wonderful. It feels extremely good, feels like my family.”

In addition to visiting with the couple, Lavon calls every day to check in to see if they need anything, and often drives the husband to his own doctor visits due to his impaired vision.

One of the most meaningful parts of Lavon’s volunteering is the special impact she’s made: “When I first went there, she really didn’t have any social skills. But now, when I just look into the room where she is, she just looks at me, smiles and laughs.”

Lavon’s step-daughter is a nurse at Alliance Hospice, and is the one who originally recommended that Lavon look into volunteer opportunities there last fall. Now, Lavon says, “It’s very fulfilling because it’s volunteer work, and not a job that I have to do.”

If you are interested in volunteering for Alliance Hospice like Lavon Palmer, please email: info@alliancehospice.com.

About the Author 

Bruce Dalglish has served as the Chairman and CEO of Alliance Hospice and All Caring Hospice since 2005. In this role, Bruce Dalglish oversees the development and strategic direction of both companies. From 2008 – 2013, Bruce Dalglish served on the Public Policy Committee of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO).

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Disclaimer: Blogs by R. Bruce Dalglish provide educational information, not medical advice. Please consult with your medical providers when making end-of-life care decisions.

The Rewarding Feeling of Coordinating Volunteers for Hospice Patients

By R. Bruce Dalglish

Updated June 25, 2018

It takes a unique village of high-quality professionals and caring human beings to ensure that Alliance Hospice provides and maintains an excellent level of care. Our patients deserve nothing less, and our dedicated staff are determined to assure that our patients are as comfortable as possible, and feel that they have a rewarding quality of life during their final days.

Jessica Harr, Volunteer Coordinator at Alliance Hospice, exudes that determination in her hands-on work with Alliance Hospice’s volunteers. In her own words, Jessica stated that, “Volunteers are the heart and soul of our service. They are kind generous people that provide love and care to our patients and their family members, as well as helping hands to our hard working staff. Alliance Hospice volunteers are our angels, and I feel truly blessed that it is my job to take care of the volunteers.”

Each and every day, Jessica observes the kindness of her volunteers firsthand. “I have witnessed a caregiver get the chance to go have lunch with her sister and their Red Hat ladies group for the first time in over a year,” described Jessica. “Those sisters came back after an hour and a half giggling like school girls! My volunteers and I looked at each other smiling and asked them why they didn’t stay longer. The wife replied that she didn’t want to take advantage. My volunteer then said that she would stay all day to see them smile and laugh like that. She is one my many volunteers who feels that volunteering is the best job she has ever had.”

This is just one of many examples of the meaningful volunteerism that Jessica helps nurture and foster, leading to a profound impact on our hospice patients. The reward involved in volunteering at Alliance Hospice is immeasurable for all involved – the patient, the family, our staff, and our wonderful volunteers.

About the Author 

Bruce Dalglish has served as the Chairman and CEO of Alliance Hospice and All Caring Hospice since 2005. In this role, Bruce Dalglish oversees the development and strategic direction of both companies. From 2008 – 2013, Bruce Dalglish served on the Public Policy Committee of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO).

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Disclaimer: Blogs by R. Bruce Dalglish provide educational information, not medical advice. Please consult with your medical providers when making end-of-life care decisions.